Sunday, July 10, 2011

Summer Days

I must admit that it has been a little more difficult for me to have to work full-time during the summer than I anticipated. Having been a teacher or student for the last several years has allowed me a flexible schedule to enjoy the good weather and summer activities. This year I continue to work 8:00-5:00. Work, work, work, that's all I do. It's hard to believe we're already half-way through July. What happened to first half of the year?

Fortunately I can still do some things in the evenings and weekends. For example, Friday we went to Provo to hang out with some friends from our married student ward that are moving in a month. We ate Brick Oven Pizza and played some Frisbee golf before coming home for Root Beer floats and a few games. We wish them luck in Texas!

Saturday we attended the temple in the morning, visited Grandpa Burningham, took care of some errands, and then had a delicious dinner at Jason's parents' home before going to Alpine Community Theater's performance of Cinderella with Steve and Kirsten (here visiting for a couple of weeks), Chelsey and Mike, and Jason's parents. The play was a Rodgers and Hammerstein version and showcased some talented actors and singers that made it a fun evening.

Another activity we had this week included babysitting our neighbor's three girls for an evening. We ate pizza for dinner, cleaned up the house a little, and played three games--one selected by each of the three girls--before putting them to bed. While playing the game of Life the 4-year-old asked me if Jason and I were married. When I answered that yes we were she asked, "Where are your kids?" I told her they were still in heaven. That must have satisfied her because she just said "Oh" and turned back to the game.

Wednesday we went to institute and listened to Joseph Grenny speak about agency and our power to change. He related a social science laboratory study to related gospel principles and how they affect our ability to make wise decisions. It was well-done and helped me think about agency in a new way.

Sunday, July 3, 2011

4th of July Activities



Can I just say that I love the 4th of July! I love the warm weather, the summer family activities, the fireworks, the patriotic music and decorations, and I love living in this country--as imperfect as its government leaders may be. I feel that God has been watching over and preparing this country so that He could bring forth the restored gospel of Jesus Christ. I've been reading a series about the American Revolution recently and have been so impressed by the sacrifices of men, women, and children that fight, live, and die for the freedoms and liberties we now enjoy. These brave and dedicated men and women didn't do it on their own either. They had divine intervention on numerous occasions that were not just coincidence. I'm grateful for good books that help me better appreciate the sacrifices of others and the many blessing we have today because of those who have gone before. I hope that I contribute to a better future for my children and grandchildren through the choices I make as well.

Here are some of the things we've been up to this week.

Monday: At the last minute we decided to go to a free concert at Taylorsville Dayzz where the Utah Symphony performed. We were all spread out on the lawn of a park listening to these amazing and talented musicians. They played the theme from Stars Wars, "Jupiter" by Gustav Holst, and a variety of patriotic classics. They ended with the War of 1812 complete with a group of "cannoneers" that shot off real cannons at the appropriate times during the song. It was pretty cool. After wards they had a great fireworks show that we both really enjoyed.

Thursday: We went to the Thanksgiving Point Gardens with Jason's parents and it was gorgeous! I love gardens. The nice thing is that for some reason it was almost completely empty and it was as if we had the gardens to ourselves. We enjoyed walking around them for a couple of hours and talking about all kinds of things. My experience was only dampened by those inconsiderate mosquitoes that got me a few times right as the sun was setting. After the gardens we went to Cold Stone for ice cream. Mmmmm. Yummy!

Saturday: We hiked to Bell Canyon Falls with Jason's parents. I think it was an 8 mi. hike round trip and took us about 4 hours. It was such a beautiful trip. I love being out in nature. The reservoir and surrounding rivers were more full than I've ever seen them. The Falls were must bigger than when we went on Labor Day last year and we couldn't get very close to them to get very good pictures.

That night we were invited over to another couple's house (Seth and Cassie) in our stake for dinner and games. We've gotten together several times before and really enjoy playing games with them. I actually know the husband from my master's program and we both just happened to move to the same stake in Sandy. They don't have any children yet either and it's been nice to have some friends in the same stage of life as us.

Sunday: Today we went to a double baby blessing for my cousins' babies. They both live really close and it was fun to see their family again.

Monday: Even though it hasn't happened yet, tomorrow we're going to the West Jordan parade with my parents and sister's family. We'll eat together and watch the Sugar House fireworks. I excited to spend time with family and especially happy to have a day off of work!













































This is a picture of us at Sugar House Park just before the fireworks began. We went with Kristilyn and Mark and their two boys. I walked with Kristilyn at least a half mile each way--She was a trooper with all that walking at 7 1/2 mo. pregnant with twins.

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Some People Learn the Hard Way

I thought I already posted this, but apparently I didn't. This is from last week.

Today Jason is very relieved. He just survived his first Scout Camp. It has been a quite the learning experience for him. He had to learn a lot of things about Scout Camp and it seemed that people didn't have the answers. He had to do his homework on the subject, but he now knows where the scout camp is, what forms the boys need, how to sign the boys up for merit badges, what camping equipment our ward has, how to plan a week of meals, how much food five 12- and 13-year-olds can eat, and how to coordinate with the scout leaders and fathers.

He only actually went up to the camp Friday night. He left in the early afternoon for Camp Tomahawk at East Fork of the Bear. Because the roads are pretty bad from the snow, he had to go a longer way through Evanston, WY. After the first hour and a half, he ran over something that he never saw, but everything seemed to be okay so he kept going. An hour later (25 mi. past Evanston) his car started shaking and smelling really bad.

He was able to safely pull over to the side of the road. He was pretty shaken up and worried that something had blown up, half expecting smoke to be billowing out of his hood. He tried to call his dad, but he didn't get any phone service. He figured out how to lift the hood of the car and looked around but didn't see anything glaringly wrong. He opened a couple fluid caps but decided he couldn't see anything wrong in there. He started walking around the car and looked under it to see if there were any fluids leaking. When he got around to the other side of the car he noticed one of his tires had blown out. (I smile to think that he didn't know that the bad smell was burning rubber. :)

So now that he knew what was wrong with the car, all he had to do was change the tire, right? Wrong. He didn't know how to change a tire--in fact, he didn't even know where the spare tire was located! I guess he missed the auto mechanics day in scouts when he was a boy. Well, he finally got out his tire and a wrench and then he tried to call his dad again. He must have looked pretty worried because a logger driving past him turned around and came to find out if he was okay. The logger just got right to work and quickly got the tired switched out. Jason just sat back and asked lots of questions. :) He then drove 25 mi. back to Evanston to get another tire and then turned around and drove all the way to the camp. Actually finding the camp on the poor excuse for a road is a story for another day. Hopefully he learned enough to do change a tire again if he has to. If not, we'll be sure to have similar adventures later on.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Father's Day and Business Trips

I am so grateful for good fathers, and in particular my father. He is such a good, kind, honest, hard working, and loving father. Not everyone is blessed with a father like mine, but I'm so grateful to have had that example growing up so that I would know how important it was to marry a good man like him. I know Jason will be a great father too some day.

I flew to a project kickoff in Milwaukee on Thursday. We had a day-long meeting Friday most of which I was responsible for. I needed to get a lot of information from them to create a design document for their project. I had lots of questions for us to discuss, but I learned very quickly that what I thought to be simple questions with simple answers were not very simple and they had a hard time giving me direct answers. We ended up talking around the points I needed to get, so I hope I'll have enough info. to create a solid design. They are paying a lot of money for this project and I have the heavy responsibility in most respects of making sure they get what they paid for. Our flights were delayed coming home so I didn't get home until 2:00 in the morning.

Here are a few pros and cons of business trips:
Pros:
  • Eating out a lot and having the company pay for the food
  • Visiting new places
  • Sleeping in nice hotels with very comfortable beds
  • Having other people make your bed and clean up the room
  • Time to read good books on the plane
Cons:
  • Not getting to come home at night and consequently having to work longer hours per day
  • Delayed flights and long hours of travel
  • Not having as much time to do what I want to in the evenings
  • Not being with Jason
  • More stress at being in charge of meetings with VIPs in the company and needing to make a good impression

Sunday, June 12, 2011

An Eventful Saturday!

Wednesday Jason and I got new cell phones. My phone has slowly progressed from a little broken to a lot broken. When my screen wouldn't work today so that I could find someone's number in my address book, I decided it was time for a new phone. My old one was over 2 1/2 years old, so I could get a new one for free if I signed up for another 2 years. Jason wanted to be on the same contract schedule, so he ended up getting a new phone for free too. Now we can have his old one as a back up in case anything happens to one of our phones. It's kind of fun to have a new gadget to figure out. My phone has a touch screen with a keyboard that I can slide out for easier texting. Jason's isn't a touch screen, but it does have a slide out keyboard as well.



Saturday morning we had a Stake Family Fun Day. Our stake put on a pretty cool carnival complete with pancake breakfast, game booths, cotton candy, snow cones, and popcorn. They had a 5K run in the morning. Jason decided to run in it when he found out that not enough people showed up to play basketball. He took first place in his division and 3rd place over all--a couple minutes behind some high school guys that run cross country at Jordan High School. He even jogged over to the Stake Center before the race and jogged home afterward. I wish I had his energy!

That afternoon we went boating on Utah Lake with Jeff and Sally and their four kids and Jason's parents. Jeff and Sally just bought a boat several months ago and invited us all out on the lake to celebrate Jason's mom's birthday and Father's Day. It was a great day to go boating. Jason and I went tubing and Jason tried some surfing, but I wasn't brave enough to try any type of skiing yet--hopefully next time.

Afterward we all went to Jeff and Sally's home for a delicious BBQ. At the BBQ Jason started getting an ear ache. It kept getting worse. We tried several ways to try to get the water out of his ear without much success. We called Dr. Mark and he told us Jason had a case of swimmer's ear, a condition where water left in the ear causes it to swell and hurt. Fortunately he had some ear drops for it. We drove to their house at 10:00pm and picked it up. It worked amazingly well and he felt fine again in the morning. Thanks Kristilyn and Mark!!

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Trip to New York -- The Long Version :)

Written by Jason

Well, we have been in two contrasting worlds for the last week and a half. First, we spent six days in New York City in Steve and Kirsten’s studio apartment in the upper west side of Manhattan. Then we spent three days with Neal and Katrina in their home in Olean, NY—a town of 15,000. We are grateful to all four of them for taking such good care of us and helping us have such a great vacation. They live in such different worlds and it was interesting to experience that back-to-back.

We saw lots of famed, historic sites, but probably our very favorite parts were conversations we had with both Steve/Kirsten and Neal/Katrina. We love you guys and look up to you.

Some of my personal favorite places we went/things we did were:

1. Front row seats to Wicked on Broadway- Our flight was several hours delayed in arriving in New York because we couldn’t land there initially due to fog. No sooner than we got to Steve and Kirsten’s were they feeding us waffles and getting us on our way to enter the drawings for very reduced prices for front row tickets to Wicked. Steve, Kirsten, Julie, and I all put our names in. Steve’s name was drawn and he gave us the two tickets. After a trip to Times Square, Julie and I found ourselves only feet away from some intense singing and acting. It was awesome. I could not believe how good the show was. We had seen it before in Chicago and I wasn’t even that into it then, but for some reason this was so much better. I’m not sure if it was just the front row or if I got the story better the second time, or if the acting was better or what. In any case, that play has some really fun music.

2. Top of the Rock- The observation deck in the Rockefeller Center has sweet views of the skyline of Manhattan Island. I love being able to have views like that which give a different perspective. While you’re down on the streets it’s hard to have a concept of how massive and plentiful the skyscrapers are. Top of the Rock gives a different and amazing view.

3. Ellis Island Museum- Wow, what a historically significant place. I would have been happy to spend so much more time there reading about all of the interesting history of the conditions, situations, and issues of Ellis Island from 1892 to 1924 while it was the primary hub for receiving over 12 million immigrants into the US. Unfortunately, Julie was sick this day and completely missed it as well as the Statue of Liberty. I must say, the Statue of Liberty is so famous, but I thought the Ellis Island stop was so much more interesting.

4. Niagara Falls- Wow, God’s creations are amazing. That is a lot of water pouring over the various waterfalls. The Maid of the Mist boat ride and the Cave of the Winds walk were fun adventures with some good cold sprays and splashes from the falls. The Cave of the Winds allows you to walk to the “Hurricane Deck” where you are ten feet away from the bottom of the edge of one of the falls. The splashing is basically like taking a shower with your clothes on.

We also took a couple of bus tours of the city that allowed us to see a lot of things in drive-by fashion: the Empire State Building, the famed Macy’s Department store (it has the most floor space of any department store in the world), apartment buildings that celebrities lived in, Harlem etc. We walked around the area of the World Trade Center and went through a mini 9/11 museum, walked down part of Wall Street, went inside the largest cathedral in the world (St. John’s—it was really impressive), rode bikes through and around Central Park, went to the Museum of Natural History, took a tour of Carnegie Hall, ate at Serendipity, and briefly checked out some fun and unique stores in New York like Dylon’s Candy Shop and the Apple Store on 5th Avenue.

The Museum of Natural History has this really cool illustration of the relative size of things all the way from the galaxies to parts of an atom. It’s hard to fathom it all, but it reminded me of Abraham 3—if one thing exists, there’s always something greater than it.

We also went to Lion King on Broadway. After how fantastic Wicked was we were a little disappointed overall, but the costuming and sets were creative and amazing. Riding the subways around the city reminded me of my mission.

A nice little break from the noise and commotion of New York City was being able to go to the Manhattan temple one evening. It’s a nice little temple. The interior is more fancy or high class I think than any other temple I have been in. I think it was also the smallest temple I’ve ever been to in terms of the size of the rooms.

With Neal and Katrina we were fortunate enough to go to the Smith family home in Palmyra, the Sacred Grove, the Grandin Printing Shop where The Book of Mormon was first published, and the Hill Cumorah. The church makes things really nice. It’s neat to be able to go to sites so important to our heritage. I didn’t realize the church had a recently released movie about Joseph Smith. We watched the whole thing at the Hill Cumorah Visitor’s Center.

Our trip also included several rounds of Bananagrams, Steve beating us all in a good game of Bang and Neal winning a round of Cities and Knights. Neal is lucky it was my first time playing : ).

Funny Moments:

1. Jason at Wicked: “Wow, that was good. It’s cool to sit so close up.”

Julie: “It’s not over yet. It’s just intermission.”

Jason: “Oh (sheepishly). I forgot how exactly the play goes, but I thought that was a pretty dramatic finale. [Defying Gravity]”

2. Ben’s endless and extremely determined attempts to delay bedtime. That little boy is a crack up. Julie and I had a hard time holding in our laughter when he fell right off his chair one night at dinner. One minute we saw him at the table, and the next he had disappeared under the table, but not before flipping his plate of food off the table right after him.

3. While rushing to the Buffalo Airport from Niagara Falls, as we approached the airport Daniel kept telling us that he just saw our plane take off and that we needed to turn around because it was too late. I don’t know if he really wanted us to stay longer or if he just thought there was only one plane taking off from Buffalo that day. Either way, it didn’t help Julie's stress levels. I love Daniel’s cheerfulness.

4. At the church’s Hill Cumorah Visitor’s Center:

Sister missionary: “What’s your name?”

Daniel: “Daniel Xavier Carter.”

Sister missionary: “How old are you?”

Daniel: “Four and three quarters.”

Unfortunately, I think we were bad luck or something because three of the four nieces and nephews we stayed with had bouts of throwing up while we were with them. Some kind of short-lived bug jumped from Ben to Steve to Kirsten to me to Julie. In fact, I spent one whole morning sleeping on the plush air mattress in Steve and Kirsten’s apartment. Two days later, Julie was down for a whole day of sleeping. We are grateful none of us felt sick longer.

On this trip I’ve gone from learning what the song “Uptown Girl” is even talking about to learning that when Joseph Smith had the First Vision in the Sacred Grove, there probably were not any leaves on the trees yet (a little different from the movie portrayals huh?), from listening to little Ben insist on offering his several-minute long input to the Family Home Evening lesson to Bishop Carter teaching the fifth Sunday lesson to his little ward, from sleeping on an air mattress (and a nice one at that) in a studio apartment on Broadway, to sleeping in the loft of an old New England home on Main Street in Olean, NY. Now that’s what I call a vacation!

(If you want to see pictures, you can look at the slideshow at the bottom of the blog.)

Sunday, May 15, 2011

My, How Quickly Life Changes

Well, a lot has changed since Easter. In fact, Easter seems like a long time ago now. But before I just jump over Mother's Day, however, I do want to acknowledge my wonderful mother and mother-in-law. They both both treat me as their daughters and I'm grateful for their loving care and support. I hope to one day be a mother as wise and loving and caring as they are.

My father and father-in-law also both had significant birthdays in the last couples weeks as well. I love both of them too and I hope they both had wonderful birthdays.

One of the biggest changes for us in the last couple of weeks has been the fact that Jason quit his job and decided to go back to school. Although the actual day he quit surprised me, the fact that he quite did not surprise me at all. Jason is not a salesman and we both knew that he wouldn't be happy selling for very long. He hadn't been very happy for a while now with all the pressure, etc. so I'm glad it all came to a head a couple weeks ago and he was able to stop working at Qualtrics with just enough time to apply, get accepted, and register for classes at UVU for the summer term.

Jason's new career plan involves becoming an actuary, or someone who uses complex mathematical formulas to calculate risk for companies, such as life insurance, pension plans, business consulting, etc. Jason is actually really good at math, so we both wonder why he didn't take any math at BYU. Well, he actually took one stats class which he really enjoyed, but that's it. Since he doesn't have a college math background, he has some work ahead of him. He took a math placement test on Monday and tested into Calculus, so as soon as he can get in (probably in the Fall) he'll start taking some advanced math classes. In the meantime he's trying to get other educational experience needed to be an actuary, such as accounting, economics, finance, etc. To actually become an actuary you have to pass a series of tests. It will take somewhere between 1-2 years before he'll be prepared to take the first test, and as soon as he passes at least one test, he'll be pretty marketable to get a job. We're both excited to have this new plan and more direction for the future. Interestingly enough, a lot of the jobs for actuaries are on the east coast, so we may find ourselves living out there in a few years.

What we're both excited for though, is a vacation! We're looking forward to our upcoming trip to New York to visit Jason's brother and his family as well as my sister and her family. We're glad we timed it just right though, because my sister's husband Neal just got accepted to teach at BYU-I and so they're moving to Idaho in a few months. We're really excited for their good news and are very happy to have them closer to the rest of the family.